Transform Your Life Today
Author of I can't Do Us Anymore coming out on November 20th, pre-sales open on October 1st 2025.
Transform Your Life Today
Author of I can't Do Us Anymore coming out on November 20th, pre-sales open on October 1st 2025.
Empower Your Life Journey
About Sarah Bar-lev Born in Nottingham, Sarah earned her law degree from the University of Wales and went on to teach international criminal law at several universities. Her academic and professional journey was interrupted when her son Joshua was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer in 1996 and sadly passed away in December 1998. Sarah later worked in the charity and care sectors before becoming a change management specialist at the Ministry of Defence and later in a major global consultancy. In 2006, she met her future husband, marrying him in January 2010. Fourteen years later, Sarah’s world imploded when he confessed to an eight-year affair—with men—including in their own home. Even during her battle with breast cancer, he continued the betrayal. Following a nervous breakdown and three suicide attempts, Sarah began the long, hard road back to herself. Therapy and coaching helped her uncover the emotional abuse and gaslighting she had endured. She emerged stronger and free.
I Can't Do Us Anymore
I Can't Do Us Anymore
I Can't Do Us Anymore
I Can't Do Us Anymore
I Can't Do Us Anymore
I Can't Do Us Anymore
I Can’t Do Us Anymore is not your typical breakup memoir. It’s raw, real, and at times, ridiculously relatable. When Sarah’s husband of 14 years confessed to cheating on her—with men, in their own home, including while she had cancer—you’d think it couldn’t get any worse. Spoiler: it did. Nervous breakdowns, suicide attempts, and a crash
I Can’t Do Us Anymore is not your typical breakup memoir. It’s raw, real, and at times, ridiculously relatable. When Sarah’s husband of 14 years confessed to cheating on her—with men, in their own home, including while she had cancer—you’d think it couldn’t get any worse. Spoiler: it did. Nervous breakdowns, suicide attempts, and a crash course in narcissism later, Sarah did the unimaginable: she survived, got strong, and got hilarious.
This book is for anyone who’s ever been betrayed, blindsided, or just deeply unimpressed by someone they once loved. Equal parts heartbreak and healing, with a side of dark humour, I Can’t Do Us Anymore proves that sometimes the worst thing that happens to you… is actually the best thing that ever happened.